My Story: How I Found a Wife Abroad (And How You Can Too)

My First Failure: Marrying the Wrong Woman

This is the very beginning of my story. Back in the early 2011s, I did what most guys do — I married an American woman. At first, everything seemed fine. We had fun and chemistry, and I thought we were on the same page. But over time, things changed. She became more focused on her career and independence, while I wanted a real partnership — a family, faithfulness, and a woman who actually cared about building a future together and raising children.

It didn’t take long for things to fall apart. Our love affairs felt more like competition than marriage. Arguments over “who should do what” became the norm, and any idea of traditional roles went out the window. After four years of rivalry and holding a grudge, by 2015, we were divorced.

The Example of My Friend & New Perspectives 

Around that time, my best friend married a Polish woman. I watched how different their relationship was. His spouse was supportive and kind and actually wanted to create a healthy family. I admired the way she looked up at him. No constant power struggles, no walking on eggshells. Just a loving, healthy affair. Then, a wonderful idea popped up in my mind. Maybe I was looking in the wrong place?  Maybe the kind of wife I wanted wasn’t in the US at all? 

How I Searched for My Wife Abroad

So, in 2015, I started doing my research because I didn’t want to jump into things too quickly. I read everything I could about international dating, signed up for a few sites, and even booked some trips. I met women from all over the globe — Ukraine, the Philippines, Mexico, Colombia. Some experiences were just awesome, some… not so much.

I made mistakes and fell for scams. I wasted time on the wrong platforms. But I kept learning, kept improving, and kept traveling. After plenty of missteps and lessons learned, I cherry-picked the best and most reputable dating sites that are worth praise. Sneak peek: I share my honest verdict about them in my posts. 

In 2019, I met my wife from Japan. She was everything I’d been looking for — feminine, supportive, family-focused, and smart. The spark between us was burning, and within a year, we were married.

How I Started Helping Other Men

In 2020, a brilliant idea came to my mind. I realized that it wasn’t only me who struggled to find a soulmate and went through challenges, trials, and errors before finding a significant other. Before that, I obtained a degree in psychology from the University of Illinois. 

I decided to create an easy-to-use yet informative website where I can compile my knowledge, experience, and helpful tips from dating experts. I launched this site to help men find the kind of wife they actually want. Here, you will find:

• Guides on how to date internationally from the comfort of your home
• Reviews of the best dating sites (and the ones to avoid)
• Advice on different cultures and avoiding common mistakes when creating a rapport with foreigners
• Success stories from guys who found love abroad
• Personal consultations for men who want one-on-one assistance

If you are serious about finding a foreign wife, I can lend you a hand. By partnering together, we’ll get the best results possible. Aside from becoming more confident as a dater, you will be able to enjoy a smooth, hassle-free, and exciting love journey with your dream woman.